so .. . this might not be worth much, but your story reminds me of a college roommate.
She was a Queen Bee - if she wasn't swarmed by admirers, she wasn't happy. ~ People falling "hopelessly in love with her" were her sustenance, in a sort of narcissistic/sadist way ( "Your tears, they are so delicious.") I was, in fact, dating women as well as men at the time, but I knew her far too well to be attracted to her - and she could NOT accept this. It was completely DOES NOT COMPUTE - and it was funny, really, to see how hard she suddenly worked to charm me. (She accused me of being "hard to get" just to torment her, which was even more hilarious ( as I was usually the one outside in the cold, pressing my face to the window-glass looking at all the pretty people.)
A second possibility is that your "friend," with her wedding approaching, wants to sow as many of her wild oats as possible before she's theoretically cut off.
And finally, it's possible that she doesn't have this other mythical lovesick BFF; it's possible that she's actually hitting on you because she's bi-curious ( see impending nuptials above) or because she genuinely wants to nibble on your tender flesh but is afraid of rejection ( and so making her seem like Aphrodite incarnate is her way of marketing herself.)
But, in short; I think it's her, I don't think it's you.
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She was a Queen Bee - if she wasn't swarmed by admirers, she wasn't happy. ~ People falling "hopelessly in love with her" were her sustenance, in a sort of narcissistic/sadist way ( "Your tears, they are so delicious.") I was, in fact, dating women as well as men at the time, but I knew her far too well to be attracted to her - and she could NOT accept this. It was completely DOES NOT COMPUTE - and it was funny, really, to see how hard she suddenly worked to charm me. (She accused me of being "hard to get" just to torment her, which was even more hilarious ( as I was usually the one outside in the cold, pressing my face to the window-glass looking at all the pretty people.)
A second possibility is that your "friend," with her wedding approaching, wants to sow as many of her wild oats as possible before she's theoretically cut off.
And finally, it's possible that she doesn't have this other mythical lovesick BFF; it's possible that she's actually hitting on you because she's bi-curious ( see impending nuptials above) or because she genuinely wants to nibble on your tender flesh but is afraid of rejection ( and so making her seem like Aphrodite incarnate is her way of marketing herself.)
But, in short; I think it's her, I don't think it's you.
*Huggles in an only slightly-inappropriate way*